Leave me alonge, I’m not gay!
I have nothing against gay people, I have a lot of friends who are gay. But the thing is I am not.
I started talking to a lesbian in one of my classes. She invited me out to a club, and I thought, why not. She said I could bring a friend, so I bought by boyfriend. Then she totally flipped out on me. Turns out it was a gay club and she wanted me to experiment with my sexuality.
And now she is totally on me to try dating a girl, or at least try it out. I know I am straight, I don’t have the attraction to a women like I do a man. And even if I was attracted to a woman, I am in a committed relationship.
Now I just want her to go away. I stopped texting her, talking to her in class, but she just won’t leave me alone. I don’t know what to do.
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Although I’ve never had anything like that happen before, I kind of know how you feel. Most of my friends are gay or bisexual, which can get uncomfortable at times. I can deal with them poking a little fun at me, and joking around that they’ll “turn me gay”, but there are times when I really don’t appreciate what they do. I guess at one point someone whom I don’t know very well told a friend of mine that she thought I was gay as well. This freaked me out, since I’ve never even had a boyfriend before and didn’t want a rumor going around that would make getting one some day even harder.
But honestly, I am really comfortable with my sexuality, which makes being friends with these people much easier. And as long as I am comfortable with it, things like rumors won’t bug me. I’d just go out and set the record straight and be done with it. So just tell her that just like her, you are comfortable with your sexuality and that you two should remain just friends at best.
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It’s her fault for assuming something of you before getting to know you. She needs to learn to deal in a more mature way, like you have. You are trying to cut contact with her, which she should have accepeted. As long as you’re comfortable with your sexuality and you, you’ll be ok.
If she doesn’t get the message any time soon though, maybe get angry. Not violent in this case, but try and scare her off.
Any other lesbians or bisexuals she brings around YOU personally should be avoided untill she gets off your back about joining the other side.
Just because she’s gay doesn’t mean you have to be as well, and people like her need to mature a little.
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The way she is trying to push you towards something that you know is wrong for you is pretty shitty of her. Seems like you two could have had a pretty awesome friendship if she didn’t go fuck it up like that… so that aspect sucks. Try and talk to her as civilized as you can about it.
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and it’s stuff like that that gets gays bashed and harrassed. everywhere they go, they increase in number. by logic of what they say is ‘natural’ for them, they can’t reproduce….so they must be recruiting, which you can swear to firsthand. i know that hermaphrodites happen more often than anyone realizes, and i feel those folks are legitimately gay. but the kind of crap you had to contend with? yeah….that’s what incites hatred.
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