When to ask if we can be exclusive.
So I’ve been on 4 dates with a guy. REALLY like him and think he really likes me too. I’ve jumped into relatinoships in the past and have been trying to avoid it but I’m ready to throw caution to the wind with this one after having quite a few experiences where I didn’t feel this way at all about a guy.
I’d like to bring up the topic of being exclusive and I’m not sure how to do it. I don’t mean just exclusive like no sex with anyone else I mean I want to be his girlfriend. I am 90% sure he feels the same way. Just don’t know how to bring it up or if I am jumping the gun here.
Guys what do you think if you like a girl what’s the best way to hear from her that she wants you to be all hers? Do I just ask him if he’s seeing other people and if he says no tell him I think I could not see other people if that’s what he wanted. A little help would be awesome. K thanks bye!
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there are a few things you said that i have to question.
I don’t mean just exclusive like no sex with anyone else I mean I want to be his girlfriend.
does that mean you already had sex with him?
I’ve jumped into relatinoships in the past and have been trying to avoid it
and if you already had sex, how is that not jumping into some sort of relationship?
i understand wanting to have the relationship title of “boyfriend/girlfriend”, but you’ve only been out with him 4 times. 4 times!! how many weeks is that? ask yourself “how well do i really know this guy? how well does he know me? is there really a need to have a “title” on the relationship?”
he very well may feel the same way as you, but if you jump the gun and his feelings are not the same, you could scare him off.
my advice would be this: since you don’t want to jump into relationships anymore, just continue to date him for awhile, enjoying the time you spend with him. if it gets to a point where you’re texting all the time, calling all the time, spending every damn free minute together, then you’ll know.
hope it all works out for ya, good luck.
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no sex – not ready for that yet
3 weeks
no need for title just affirmation that we are both feeling the same way I guess I agree with your point above about just spending time together and I will “know” won’t even need to bring it up….that’s pretty much what is happening
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Approach him and just be cool about it. Something like, “So buddy, I can’t help but notice that you would be way better off if I was your girlfriend.”
If he says, “I thought you were my girlfriend” than great, you have your answer. If he is resistant, at least you can open up the lines of communication and discover if he is ready to be your man.
Don’t be coy, don’t use innuendo. Stand out from the rest and just be out with it.
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actions speak louder than words. just be sweet to him and show him that you care, but maintain your own life. in time if it’s meant to be it will work out.
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