Something is seriously wrong here.
Everything about me somehow gets turned into something about her. I understand that we all have our own issues in our head but honestly, is it fair that when I try to open up to her about things that I never dare speak of that she finds a way to turn it into something thats offensive to her?
Example: I spent 7 years in CPS and going from foster home to foster home. I have a lot of bottled up shit and I never even talk about it… I hardly even ever think about it just because when I do, I lose control and turn to things that I shouldn’t. Well, she found a way to turn it into how she doesn’t feel like I feel like I belong with her and that I don’t love her. I mean, does that even make any sense?
And now she calls me to complain that she drove to her uncles house to feed his dogs but his fiance was there so she “Wasted” all this gas driving to his house for nothing. Really? I try to open up about things that are just… so deep inside me that it’s killing me and she treats me like shit and then wants me to comfort her that she wasted maybe 5 miles worth of gas? Shoot me now.
And I know what you’re all going to say. That I’m a moron for even being with her but when things are good with us, they’re so good. She’s worth going through the hard shit. The good is worth it to go through all the bad. But it doesn’t mean it doesn’t hurt me.
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You’re not a moron. Some people need to have the universe revolve around them. That sounds harsh, but you know what I mean — I mean that they’ve literally had it so easy that they’ve never felt the need to walk a couple of blocks in someone else’s shoes. But they’re warm and kind enough to make them seem worthwhile. My advice: Tell her about it. See what happens. If it doesn’t work then she wasn’t your friend to begin with, but at least she’ll know how you feel. If she is your friend (or girlfriend, I dunno) then she will understand. I mean venting about wasting gas wouldn’t be a problem if she gave you your space, right?
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Man, I completely understand what you’re talking about. My girlfriend has just handed me the ultimatum that I either get happy straight away or she will leave me. All because I’ve been stressed because of work. Then she starts going on about how it’s making her depressed, etc. It’s frustrating because no matter what, I am the one that always needs to forget my problems to deal with hers. Right now I am angry, a few hours I was upset. Now I just want her to stop complaining and just.. help by just being there for each other. I get over my stress easily, but it always becomes a giant drama when it slightly affects her.
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Damn brother, that’s a tough one.
I know that it can be so good with her, but trust me on this. As someone who has had a very rocky past, you just know who the right one is when it is time to talk. The one that will understand and not judge your past.
Don’t reveal your past to make her understand why you are the way you are. Reveal your past because she is the only one that deserves to know.
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