why am I like this
am I really crazy? I have been with this guy for almost 9 months and we just had a giant fight. I have some pretty bad trust issues from things that have happened in past relationships. I know it’s not right to hold that against anyone else but it’s like the feeling just overwelms me. So my current boyfriend had got dumped by his ex 3 months before we got together. He mentioned her a few times in the beging of our relationship then he left for Alaska for a month. I watched his dog and thought everything was great. Then I get that overwellming feeling and I checked his phone bill and seen that he was calling her. He got back from AK and moved in with me. A month or so later I asked him if he called his ex when he was up there and he told me no. A few weeks after that I couldn’t take it anymore and asked him why he lied? He said it was because he didn’t want me to flip out. I told him please never do that again and just tell me the truth. His family still talks to his ex and her family hangs out with his family. They mention her and see her once in a while. He talks about her sometimes. I looked at his text messages the other day and seen that he told his buddy that his ex is prego. I know it is not his and that thought didn’t even enter my mind. But I have been upset for the last week that he still feels the need to talk about her. Ofcourse I let it build up and he was texting on his phone tonight and I lost it. I wanted to see his phone and when he finaly gave it to me there was only 6 messages and I knew he erased them cause he had been texting for almost 3 hours. So then he got pissed and told me I was crazy. So I asked him when was the last time you talked about your ex to someone? He said he hasn’t. Then I flipped out and told him I seen the text and once again his response was I knew you would flip out. So we screamed back and forth for a bit then I cried for about an a hour said I was sorry and I know I have no reason to not trust him. He still won’t look at me or talk to me. Unless it’s to tell me I’m acting like a 15 year old.
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Youre never going to get over your trust issues if you keep going through his shit. His lies will come out eventually w/out your help. He went into your relationship way too soon after the last one. He obviously needs to time to get over her and its not fair to you that hes putting you in the middle of it. tell him that when he gets his shit together then you guys can talk about a relationship.
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