i am not your girlfriend

10:59pm February 20 2010 ~ 5 Responses · About relationships.

I’ve known you for almost two years, and I’ve been dating you for a month. You said you accepted me for who I am, which is, a man. Not a woman, a MAN. And therefore, your BOYFRIEND. Yet you still refer to me as your girlfriend. You still call me by my birth name as well. It drives me up the fucking wall. I’m not your fucking girlfriend. I won’t be your boyfriend for very long either if you keep this up.

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  1. dude 21 February 2010 at 1:00 PM Permalink

    your gonna have to tell all this to your girlfriend if you want her to stop, otherwise, she has no clue that this bothers you so much. to her, it is probably just a pet name that she finds funny and if it didn’t bother you before, why would it bother you now….? try to see it from her perspective and be honest with her about it.

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    • OP 21 February 2010 at 7:14 PM Permalink

      Actually…it’s my boyfriend.

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      • dude 21 February 2010 at 9:35 PM Permalink

        well then change all the shes, hers, to him and he and girlfriend to boyfriend.
        still, the information needs to be given before you can expect him to stop calling you his girlfriend.
        i’m going to guess to him, it is more of a pet name/label and has no clue it bothers you as much as it does.

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  2. Me again 21 February 2010 at 8:54 PM Permalink

    OK, I’m going to try to understand this…
    You were born female
    You have a boyfriend
    You prefer to be called by a name other than your birth name (probably gender specific)
    You may or may not have had a sex change operation

    I agree with dude…You need to tell him how you feel and if he can’t respect your wants then you need to move on or accept it.

    LUCK!

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  3. Gosh 22 February 2010 at 7:19 PM Permalink

    Dude. Man up. Stop being such a girl. Grow some balls.

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