Feelings that should not be felt…
I am a married woman. I love my husband. But i am young snd i question getting married at a young age. It makes it so so hard because….ok heres the bad feelings….
I dated a guy when i was younger (5 years ago)He was the only other man who i ever loved. After we broke up we were never friends and barly talked.
Over the last 6 months I have dreamed about him almost everynight….I started dreaming about him before I ever even talked to him. I dont know why! And now he is a friend of all of ours and rents my husband and i’s basement.
I feel so torn and wrong and confused. I dont know what to do. I still think about and dream about him. Where and why and how is this happening?
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a lot of times the past is something better left alone, dreams or not.
you went ahead and made it worse by talking to him.
you went ahead and made it even worse by renting out your basement to the guy?
*smacks you upside the head*
WTF is wrong with you woman?
you failed to mention if your hubby knows that he is an ex bf of yours….?
i’m sure the feelings your having are all based on memories of the good times with the ex and convinently forgot the bad times.
or the two of you screwed like rabbits while your hubby and you screw like turtles, once a year, and your remembering THOSE good times with the ex.
lol captcha: sacks treatment
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You are missing the fact that I never once liked my ex again or thought about him. I dreamed about him. Something that I can not control. I had no idea that i might end up feeling something. And i dont even really “feel” something. Its not like I have a crush on my ex while im married. That would be terrible! It just all started wrong. And we now all share the same group of friends. It would be impossible to say see you later. And yes my husband knows that he is my ex. I mean it was 5-6 years ago. I just dont know why I keep dreaming about it…I guess it could be that I am relecting on the past. Or maybe it is that I am not content in my marriage. I dont know
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you are an idiot for renting it to your ex, no excuses. you wanted to vent here? you get harsh truths.
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originally you stated:
“After we broke up we were never friends and barly talked.” and
“I started dreaming about him before I ever even talked to him.”
which means at some point, you started talking to him again. what possible reason could you have for making contact with him??
this: “And we now all share the same group of friends.” tells me you didn’t have the same group of friends when you were dating him, but after 5 years, suddenly you have mutual friends?
i would say most likely the feelings your having are of nostalgia. missing the times that used to be, when you had less responsibility, less to deal with (im guessing your right around 23 or so)
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take a good hard look at your marriage. some infidelity dreams are normal, they have to do with a subconscious thought, maybe you watch a movie with james franco in it then you have a dream where you’re fucking him. that’s fine. but having recurring dreams about an ex? not okay.
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figure out your shit.
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i totally agree
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