The game.
There’s this girl that I really want to be with. Now i’m talking more than anything else I wanted before. Holy shit do I want to be with her. Not even on a sexual level. I want her to be my girlfriend in every sense of the word. She likes me and I like her, in that way. without a doubt.
Here’s where the problem comes in though.
I have absolutely NO patience whatsoever for “The Game”. What do I mean by the game? I mean that stupid fucking song and dance routine a man has to go thru when he wants to be with a woman. The flirting and all that shit. It’s not even that i’m bad at it. It’s just that I feel it’s a COLOSSAL waste of time.
My word should be enough. It should be enough that I say to her “I wanna be with you, so say yes or no” but no, evidently i’ve gotta become some sort of half assed bullshit artist. Like every other skinny faggot she’s been with before. Blow some smoke up her ass, get in her pants, turn into an asshole, this is the M.O. of all the men she’s been with.
I have no bullshit in me. NONE. There isn’t a bullshit bone in my fucking body. I’m the most honest genuine man she knows. But evidently that is enough. I still have to do the dance.
Nothing pisses me off more than the bullshit mating rituals you have to go thru. That’s all they are too. Just bullshit mating rituals. My word should be more than enough. I should be able to say “You like me and I like you, so let’s see how this works out.” but I can’t. I gotta jump thru bullshit hoops to get to what I want. That pisses me off more than anything.
All I want is her, and i’ve told her this, but it’s all for not if I don’t play “The Game” for her. Such fucking bullshit it pisses me off SO bad.
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If she’s worth it.. don’t let her pass you by. Sit down with her and tell her exactly what you just wrote. I know you’ll open her eyes to it. Actually, write it down.. if a man wrote something like this to me.. maybe less cursing..haha, then I’d actually listen. In fact, if I had it written down, I could re-read it over and over again till it sunk in..you know?? I hope you don’t give up on her because she sounds great. Hope this helped.. even a little bit. Just don’t settle. Because if you date another girl that doesnt play games, but isnt half the woman that she is.. then you still lost… Anyway, good luck.
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You are so screwed. no game.
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You that you took the thoughts out of my head and typed them here. I am a woman and “the game” pisses me off the same.
In the past men when have been interested in men and I refused to play the game. So I lay it out there, not commitment, not having babies, not saying I love you. Just being frank, as you said, and getting the “elephant” out of the room. I might not even feel THAT strongly about them, and simply want to get to the point.
But they want intrigue, they want the challenge, or they panic as if I’ve just proposed!
Still I find that the game must be played because it maintains limerence http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Limerence.
So it seems the upfront, brutally honest people like you and I must indulge in the mystique or romantic love.
In the end I believe that if it takes so much effort to maintain someones interest, that interest will probably be short lived, easily stolen by the next Romeo to come along.
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Men have been interested in “me” not “men” haha I’m pretty sure they were all straight!!
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You that you took the thoughts out of my head and typed them here. I am a woman and “the game†pisses me off the same.
In the past men when have been interested in men and I refused to play the game. So I lay it out there, not commitment, not having babies, not saying I love you. Just being frank, as you said, and getting the “elephant†out of the room. I might not even feel THAT strongly about them, and simply want to get to the point.
But they want intrigue, they want the challenge, or they panic as if I’ve just proposed!
Still I find that the game must be played because it maintains limerence (found on wiki, I had to re post this because I had a link to it before, so my comment wasn’t approved)
So it seems the upfront, brutally honest people like you and I must indulge in the mystique or romantic love.
In the end I believe that if it takes so much effort to maintain someones interest, that interest will probably be short lived, easily stolen by the next Romeo to come along.
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